how can i use the law of attraction to get the guy i like to ask me out?
by Barb on Tuesday, July 13th, 2010 | 6 Comments
so like i know its like the 21st century and all but i still prefer a guy to make the first move theres this guy at my school who im absolutely in LOVE with ! but he has no idea. i want to use the law of attraction to inspire him to ask me out. how can i do this?
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If you’re attractive to him, you can use the law of attraction and just ask him out yourself. Forget about the old ‘man must ask woman out’. Just get over that – or you will be an old spinster. Gear up for the 21st century and enjoy your life!
The law of attraction states that thoughts influence chance. It is believed that what you focus on will actually be attracted to you. This of course is definitely not a scientific law, but more along the lines of targeted positive thinking.
The truth is, it is definitely not a foolproof system. It’s not something that is going to work just because you try it, and I wouldn’t say that there is necessarily any guarantee that its going to work. I know that visualizing yourself at his side definitely isn’t hard, but if you went overboard with trying to visualize this and other pleasant things involving him, it could turn into a bit of an obsession.
Sorry, but if you do nothing to let him know that you are interested in him, there is no way that you can visualize yourself into his thoughts. Kudos for the innovative thinking, but just remember, if you wait around forever for someone else to make the first move, you might just end up a very lonely girl.
And that’s the best advice I can give
Drop a lot of hints…he will get it.
write down the qualities that you are seeking. Believe in that person, and destiny will bring you both together in due time. You’ll be amazed one day that you have attracted a person who possesses the exact qualities you desired! Your subconscious mind has the ability to attract the ideal person in your life if you let your subconscious mind know what you desire. Do not doubt the subconscious mind’s ability to work wonders!
What is your end result? Is it him asking him out or being in a relationship? What prevents you from asking him out? Fear. You need to get over that too. He will also be afraid to ask you out.
It’s about your end result.
1. Create a boyfriend/relationship vision board. Visualise it twice a day.
2. Write out your ideal boyfriend day.
3. Write 100 ways you can achieve the relationship of your dreams.
4. Leave the house. Get out and about. LOA is a numbers game. It’s about the number of opportunities and the universe have many chances of giving you what you want.
5. Learn and APPLY EFT to get over your if, but, maybe, doubt and I’m picky.
6. Act on all should I do this… yes, if it feels good to you.
Job Done. – Keep Going until you reach your end result.
If you don’t want to make the first move, that is fine.
The law of attraction will work like this. Think of this guy. Find some great thoughts about him and you together. The longer you think about this, you’ll think of an action that feels good. Do this action. Great things will come.
The law of attraction works by mostly thinking and then using INSPIRED action from the thinking. I can’t tell you what action to take because only you will know from how you feel. It might just be dressing up nice or going to the mall. As long as your thinking thoughts that feel good, you’ll be attracting those things that will continue to keep you in your good mood.
Remember that you have no idea how things will work out. They just will. Look for oppportunities for the universe/ God/ Fate to work in your favor.
I hope this helps.